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Copyright © 1997 by Alan Cohen
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Hay House, P.O. Box 5100, Carlsbad, CA 92018
I saw a billboard prominently displaying photos of two
bottles of liquor. One was a small bottle with the caption, "Regular
size." The other bottle was huge, several times larger than
the tiny one --its caption was, "Fantasize."
The only dreams worth entertaining are those which are
far greater than the life we are already living. If we are guilty
of any sin (Self-Inflicted Nonsense), it is accommodation. We
hurt ourselves not by what we ask for; but by what we settle for.
When choosing a goal, be sure it is outrageous. If it is
something you have already done, or think you may be able to do,
you are thinking too small. Worthy dreams stretch us beyond our
history and challenge our limits, calling us to live larger than
we thought we were.
Here is a powerful exercise that will show you how to step
into bigger shoes. On a piece of paper, write the heading, "Know
I Can." Under the heading, write down three goals you are
confident you can accomplish, and probably will, within a matter
of time. Below that section write, "Maybe I Can." Then
number 4 through 6, and write down three projects you would like
to do, but wonder if you really can. These are the dreams that
stretch you beyond your current boundaries, but seem within the
realm of possibility. Finally, write the heading, "Outrageous,"
and for numbers 7 through 9, record the three most outlandish
visions you can think of, the dreams that thrill you to consider,
but you don't see how they could possibly happen.
The second part of the exercise requires that you read
your list daily, spending about twenty seconds visualizing each
goal (sixty seconds if you are inspired). Hold each image clearly
in mind, and get the feeling that your objective has already been
realized.
The exercise becomes even more fun as you check off each
goal when it is accomplished. Your visioning will be met with
miracles and support from the universe through avenues you could
never have predicted. As you complete checking off the first group,
the second group will slide up to a higher level of possibility;
the "Maybe I Can" section will become the "Know
I Can." Your excitement will further increase when the third
group ascends to become the second; somehow the "Outrageous"
becomes "Maybe I Can," and before too long, "Know
I Can." Then you can add more to your "Maybe I Can"
and "Outrageous" lists and watch them slide up like
credits rolling at the end of a movie. Your only job is to stay
focused, keep visualizing, and remain open to receive more than
you once thought you deserved.
A recent Amway convention centered on the theme, "Think
Big-Settle for More." Life operates according to universal
laws which, if you tap into them, will transport you home like
a mighty stallion. Life gives us not what we struggle for, but
what we allow. You can come to the ocean with a thimble, a bucket,
or a tank truck, and you will take with you the volume of the
container you brought.
As I was leading a guided meditation I had a vision of
a great light shining down on everyone in the room. The light
was the abundance of the universe, the vast love of God, replete
with infinite good and blessings. In the vision each person was
sitting with a basket in his or her lap; some held tiny baskets,
and others had huge ones. Those with small baskets were receiving
a little, and those with huge baskets were receiving a lot. All
was offered to all, and each gathered as much as they were willing
to hold.
William Blake boldly declared, "A man's reach should
exceed his grasp, or else what's a heaven for?"
Outrageous goals are valuable because they expand your
belief system and carve wider neural pathways in your brain, by
which your good may be delivered to you. Even if you do not achieve
your highest goal immediately, you will attain far more than you
would have if you entertained a smaller dream. "I used to
shoot for the moon, and I hit the mountains; now I shoot for the
stars, and I'm hitting the moon."
Be humble enough to admit that you don't see your highest
possibilities, yet powerful enough to accept God's vision of your
potential. Even our most exalted insights glimpse but a tiny portion
of the big picture. In 1949, an issue of Popular Mechanics
magazine featured an article by the expert on the then-new field
of computers. He predicted that "by the end of the century,
computers may weigh as little as 1.5 tons." I am now writing
on a laptop computer that weighs 6 pounds-one five hundredth the
size he predicted! The most exalted visionary of his time erred
by a factor of 500! Imagine that the good you can receive is 500
hundred times more wonderful than you can imagine, and you will
be taking your first step toward thinking for yourself as God
thinks for you.
Alan Cohen is the author of the bestselling The Dragon
Doesn't Live Here Anymore. To order Alan's new book I Had
It All The Time, or to request a free catalog of Alan's books,
tapes, and workshop schedule, write to Hay House, P.O. Box 5100,
Carlsbad, CA 92018, or call 1-800-462-3013.
For information about Alan's Mastery Training held in Hawaii and
focusing deeply with twenty-four participants, write to 430 Kukuna
Road, Haiku, Hawaii 96708 or phone 1-808-572-0001.
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